tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post6935954651780539878..comments2024-01-15T00:23:42.178-08:00Comments on Agent Frey: 4 Reasons Why Introverts Don't Want To Go To your "Team Building" Seminar and 7 Ways You Can Possibly Manipulate Us Into GoingAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13058601197807748377noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post-85503310784279335432022-07-07T02:06:04.607-07:002022-07-07T02:06:04.607-07:00Though many of us aren't linear thinkers, we&#...Though many of us aren't linear thinkers, we're known for being pretty logical when problem solving. We are usually very introspective and learn a lot by listening, which makes us great profilers and good at diagnosing you. This is not a comprehensive list and extroverts are certainly capable of identifying with many of these personality markers but it's the 'gist' of how an introvert is typically wired.<br /><a href="http://www.faisalabadfabricstore.com/tailoring-company/" rel="nofollow">stitching factory in lahore</a><br /><a href="http://www.faisalabadfabricstore.com/tailoring-company/" rel="nofollow">shirt stitching factory</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post-55952707633658477612014-09-16T15:54:30.640-07:002014-09-16T15:54:30.640-07:00What's upsetting is when pressure is put on in...What's upsetting is when pressure is put on introverts to plan grand events of this nature. We are organized etc and can do it but sometimes just picturing the social crowd is draining.Retreats for coupleshttp://jtrader.hubpages.com/hub/Christian-Marriage-Retreats-2014-Offering-Counseling-in-Florida-Ohio-Tennessee-Texas-and-Missourinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post-78298971938280882262013-11-25T05:33:26.322-08:002013-11-25T05:33:26.322-08:00As an E.E.E. (Extra Extreme Extrovert) I cannot te...As an E.E.E. (Extra Extreme Extrovert) I cannot tell you how much this helps me. I'm not just saying that because I adore you, either. I am guilty of every Extrovert contrivance you describe. If I could change my middle name, it would be to FUN! <br /><br />This was truly eye opening for me. When I read the recommendation to have a live band, my first thought was, "but they can't play too loudly or it will drown out the conversation and interaction." Then (cue music indicating mental breakthrough)..."OOHHH...the band will DROWN OUT need for conversation and interaction! WOW! I think I'm starting to understand. <br /><br />Please tell me this is a 12-part series, because my livelihood depends on my ability to engage all kinds of people and I think I've been missing out on half of ya'll. I need more of your Lisa-Wise.<br /><br />And maybe I should learn from you too. When I don't know what to say, I don't sneak out, I just keep talking, and talking, and talking. If some words don't work, just add more! I know in my heart that the Introverts are observing and diagnosing -literally since, in my desperation to engage you, I've probably now reached the point where I'm over-sharing about very personal information covered by HIPPA, but can't seem to stop myself.<br /><br />But in serving God, your desire for intimacy is so powerful! You truly connect. I flit. And when we meet in the middle...it is wonderful.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00165212964206866260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post-38122926638088928442013-11-13T23:26:27.689-08:002013-11-13T23:26:27.689-08:00Good points! I don't like labels either :-P *b...Good points! I don't like labels either :-P *but* for the sake of search engines and people like me who feel they're weird for not wanting to join the gang, its nice to have a word that encapsulates a lot of feelings that describe the why. Introversion isn't my identity for sure, and broken down, all introversion means is I gain energy from solitude and expel energy when with others. Extroverts gain energy from being w/ people and lose it when alone. That is the only dividing factor. When that is considered it makes sense why we might react different in social settings. As I tried to relay in the post, both types are often misunderstood because we both can and do enjoy all forms of communication. I love to sing and perform, it's neither an extro or intro "behavior" but after singing a set or writing a post, I have a need to regroup, alone. I suppose if anyone was 100% either/or it'd make them socially awkward. Thank you for the comment! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13058601197807748377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post-25713233596358421602013-11-13T23:02:22.476-08:002013-11-13T23:02:22.476-08:00I personally struggle with labels. For some reason...I personally struggle with labels. For some reason people seem to attach a negative connotation to the word introvert. One is not better or worse than the other. Many people would equate Jesus with an extrovert but he often showed traits becoming of an introvert, breaking off into smaller groups, stealing away for times of solitude, and hiding away from the crowds. Remember he lived 30 years of his life in anonymity. When we acknowledge both aspects in our life, though we may lean one way in particular, we can feel more whole and accept who we are without the added pressure to be something we are not. Your blogging and interaction with your readers is not introverted behavior but rather extroverted behavior on your terms or at a "safe" distance. It is nonetheless social interaction and also a great means of ministering to people.consumer87noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post-47734801200752387292013-11-13T22:13:42.760-08:002013-11-13T22:13:42.760-08:00Shane, I totally get it. My husband and I (17yrs...Shane, I totally get it. My husband and I (17yrs married) have come to terms that we let each other have our own outlets. He is free to go to parties and concerts etc., and as our kids have aged, they accompany him on a lot of social outings including some family gatherings--without me. :-) At first it was hard to navigate and understand but if your wife trusts you she may come to relish those quiet times she gets the house all to herself to read or decompress or whatever. Hang in there! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13058601197807748377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post-19750385734173669242013-11-13T01:28:02.705-08:002013-11-13T01:28:02.705-08:00Good food for thought, Tomarroww:) The idea of rem...Good food for thought, Tomarroww:) The idea of removing myself from interaction with people (as painful as interaction can be sometimes)doesn't resonate with me for a couple reasons; <br />mainly the scriptures that tell us not to stop gathering, to visit the sick and incarcerated, open our homes, be hospitable, and all the other hundreds of directives that point to social exchanges. <br /><br />That aside, when I look a Jesus and the disciples examples the emphasis on family and the general picture of the Word as a whole, I know, for me, I can't get away from it in good conscience. However, God calls us all uniquely and whats convicting for me may not sit well with anyone else. I absolutely agree with you that He does use all forms of 'sterile interaction' to make a difference, which is exactly how I pray he'll use mine (I prefer my own alternative forms of communication, singing, writing, etc., & I hope glorify him) <br /><br />But at the end of the day, we aren't islands unto ourselves, most often we get our inspiration from each other whether directly or indirectly and I believe Inro/extro's are of equal impactful value. Thank you so much for your comment and insight!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13058601197807748377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post-8056332457376703282013-11-12T19:58:21.528-08:002013-11-12T19:58:21.528-08:00Wow... you just described my wife perfectly. I'...Wow... you just described my wife perfectly. I'm sitting here with my mouth wide open.... This is very beneficial for me to help understand why she wants to leave shortly after almost every social event we go to. She has no interest in meeting new people, and often walks away in the middle of conversations. And to be honest, as an extrovert, this has been grinding on me. I enjoy socializing. I enjoy big events. I enjoy being around others. I enjoy listening to stories. I enjoy going to a party, or meeting others for dinner. My wife? Not one bit. She would rather have me at home than anywhere else. Hobbies and activities that I enjoy are now things she wants me to give up. It's a battle. She can't understand me being an extrovert, and I certainly do not understand her being an introvert (and trying to make me one), but your post has helped me to understand what my wife may not be able to verbalize. I love my wife, and we need to find some common ground and and work through this, because what is going on right now is tough. I greatly appreciate that you took the time to share your thoughts, Lisa. Thank you. Shane O'Donnellnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-287711282759629951.post-73128518155717626042013-11-12T09:20:51.083-08:002013-11-12T09:20:51.083-08:00Interesting except I don't know how I feel abo...Interesting except I don't know how I feel about the second paragraph. God working through a person doesn't necessarily absolutely involve interacting with people. There are a lot of ways God can work through us without interacting with people, especially in the day and age with the internet. Write books, music, paint pictures, preach, teach, etc. They are all forms of sterile interaction or ways God can work through us to make a difference in people's lives without us having to socially interact with them. Have they ever considered that introverts are perhaps more impactful for the kingdom and extroverts? o_0 I'll let you ponder that one ;).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com